Being married to a first responder is both an honor and a challenge. As a spouse, you share your partner’s calling to serve others, but you also carry the weight of uncertainty, shifting schedules, and the quiet worry that accompanies each shift. While the fire service, EMS, or law enforcement career can bring pride and purpose, it can also create unique strains on relationships that aren’t always openly discussed.

Trying to start a family is supposed to be one of life’s most hopeful journeys. But when infertility becomes part of that story, especially for couples in the fire service, it can feel more like an emotional battlefield.